I will be candid; writing this blog you’re reading right now is very uncomfortable for me. This is not something I seek out, feel like I’m very good at, nor is it natural or comfortable.
I suppose it’s only natural to avoid discomfort, even if that discomfort leads to growth. It’s probably built into our DNA over time through human evolution. No doubt modern humans living in the first world have it pretty damn good. We can afford to seek “comfortable” and “easy” things. We have food, clothing, and shelter, and we know we’ll go to bed content, well-fed, and safe.
But what’s the cost of this constant comfort seeking?
Maybe we can look at our anatomy for some clues. We know to live fully, stay fit and be healthy, we must work our bodies. We have to get uncomfortable to keep things working well… No pain, no gain, right?
It seems to me that this fundamental principle would also apply to other parts of our lives. Avoiding discomfort in life may be the exact opposite of personal growth and good health.
Maybe when you’re moving toward something that you dream of, that very uncomfortable feeling you’re getting indicates that you’re on the right path. It very well could be that what’s making you uncomfortable is actually the excellent stuff and is worth giving everything you’ve got to push through. That discomfort leads to growth.
I’m trying to look at writing this blog right now as the “good stuff” because the act of writing it is not comfortable or fun for me. I will work this blog writing muscle out and see if the words I’m spewing here can hold water.
What is holding you back? What growth do you want to attain, and what is uncomfortable in that process?
I’m working on being comfortable with being uncomfortable.
10 Comments
Cindy Buckman says:
September 7, 2022 at 7:13 pm
First, I’ll start by saying I really enjoyed last month’s inspiration! don’t think I shared that.
Yes, David – everything big that I’ve accomplished was at the expense of being very uncomfortable. this inspiration is a reminder to live large and discomfort can pay huge rewards. I appreciate your words and live by them 🙂 thank you!
33384842 says:
September 7, 2022 at 7:54 pm
Thanks Cindy!
I really do appreciate the feedback, trying to make these posts valuable in some way…
Challenging, but worth it on many levels!
Ben says:
September 7, 2022 at 7:47 pm
Great post, keep it real and uncomfortable!
33384842 says:
September 7, 2022 at 7:53 pm
Thanks Ben!
Patty says:
September 7, 2022 at 8:42 pm
Loved this post. You many not have been comfortable but well written!. Nearly 20 years ago you motivated and encouraged me to do something uncomfortable and it turned into a exciting new career path and great partnership!
Liz Hyatt says:
September 7, 2022 at 8:47 pm
I LOVE THIS article!! AND wholeheartedly agree with the mindset! In July 2018 I attempted to climb Yosemite’s Half Dome Cables but would quickly learn that I was totally unprepared for what I had undertaken. Poor upper body strength combined with a lack of grit, would result in my quickly backing down, sitting it out to watch friends and other climbers ascend this iconic rock while feeling disappointed in myself. Was the ego bruised? Yes. Would I try again? Never. And with that Yosemite’s Half Dome was dismissed.
Katie Hoff, former American competitive swimmer, Olympic medalist, and world record-holder once said “Everyone is excited about the result, but the work is painful. Saying ‘this is going to suck’ makes it so much easier to attack your goals”. One of the best pieces of advice I received from my personal trainer ahead of “attempt #2” of Yosemite’s Half Dome in 2021 was to “get comfortable with being uncomfortable”. So I trained. Showed up. Brought the right mindset. Remained coachable. Did the hard work. And summited that granite beast! The comfort zone is easy; it keeps us safe. Yet it offers no growth. I second what Cindy Buckman says: discomfort does indeed pay huge rewards! So it’s uncomfortable; so it’s hard; scary. Do it anyway.😉
Kristin says:
September 8, 2022 at 2:35 am
This is a great reminder that getting out of your comfort zone can be a good thing. Thanks for stepping out of yours and I look forward to reading more of your thoughts.
33384842 says:
September 8, 2022 at 7:22 pm
Thanks Patty!
Good times for sure, and an amazing partnership.
I do miss those days sometimes
33384842 says:
September 8, 2022 at 7:23 pm
Thanks Kristin!
Carrie Baldwin says:
September 9, 2022 at 6:55 pm
This is such an important article; I frequently feel uncomfortable too, but I am hopeful that I can channel that energy into something great!
Your article has inspired me!
Thanks for sharing this, David!!